How Much Does Cosmetic Damage To Your Car Bother You? Autopian Asks

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You may try your hardest to avoid it, but if you drive your car daily, it will get some form of cosmetic damage eventually. Maybe it’s a ding or a dent, maybe it’s fading paint or heck, maybe you crash your ride into something. How much do you care about cosmetic damage? Does it have you lying awake at night?

My wife’s Scion iQ has become like a pet to her. Sheryl’s given her iQ a name, Ike, and thanks the little car after every successful trip. We think of the little car as an underdog taking on the world. Unfortunately, growing such an attachment to a small car means feeling hurt when the little car takes on damage.

I don’t have pictures of it yet, but Sheryl says she got trapped in a horrible scenario. A semi-trailer ahead of her shredded a tire and she couldn’t react in time to dodge the tire “gator.” The tire shred removed a chunk from the vehicle’s lower left front bumper cover before whipping around and slamming into both right wheels. The vehicle’s right wheels lost their trim rings, which isn’t bad, but the tire also somehow managed to bend one of the steel wheels a little. We were already considering replacing the steelies with alloys, so now we have one more reason to. Thankfully, the overall body escaped damage and the only broken parts under the vehicle appear to be one or two exhaust hanger welds on the pipe. Here’s the sharp little car beforehand, if you’ve never read my pieces on it:

All things considered, it’s all very minor, very repairable damage. Still, Sheryl feels so sad because her Ike got hurt. She also hates looking at that chunk missing from the bumper because it’s a reminder that she couldn’t dodge the tire. Despite that, Sheryl tends to care less about body damage than I do.

I buy crap cars, but trust me, I do care about cosmetics!

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I consider myself to be pretty loose when it comes to cosmetics. I don’t care too much about scratches, dents, dings, or other damage so long as it’s not severe. My Volkswagen Phaeton has a little dent near the right rear wheel well (above). I can live with that or have it fixed.

What I can’t deal with is when body parts are entirely wrong colors, when there are giant rust holes, colossal dents, or just general carnage. Yes, those of you who have read my work long enough will point out that I bought the multi-colored Volkswagen Passat W8. Yeah, I thought making it all one color again was going to be easy. It was not.

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I won’t even buy a vehicle for the Gambler 500 if it’s been beaten too far for my liking, which some might call insane. I’ll make exceptions for rust for Gambler vehicles, but I’m not going to park a car at my apartment that has three different colors of doors or whatever.

Yet, Sheryl will happily drive around a car that has body damage so long as she didn’t cause it. Her HHR had a messed-up maw and her Oldsmobile LSS shed paint in giant sheets. Yet, she loved those vehicles.

So, what about you? How much do you care about that dent on your car’s door? Did you get good sleep last night?

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  1. Cosmetic damage only works on vehicles where you can imagine said vehicle doing fun thing that would result in damage. Things going off-road and on an adventure. Jeeps, and trucks, and the occasional Subaru. Something that looks like a hiking boot, should look like it’s been hiking.

    On the other hand, damage to my van would theoretically look like one of the following:

    • fender bender
    • kid mishaps
    • quality issues
    • inability to backup large vehicle without hitting things
    • grocery cart
    • strip mall parking lot key car rage
    • other assorted moments of sadness or anger

    None of these things imply experience of an adventure well lived. It implies the day to day drudgery of the life of a regular old chump. It’s a reminder of when some bastard rear ended you and then took off. Or when your father-in-law borrowed your basic commuter and backed it into a telephone pole. Or when a tractor trailer hitch punctured a hole in your Suzuki SX4’s bumper and dragged it across your employers parking lot and out onto Broadway, and you got a check to fix it but were too poor to not use it to pay rent (real example).

    TLDR: Cosmetic damage usually bothers me.

  2. Cosmetic damage only works on vehicles where you can imagine said vehicle doing fun thing that would result in damage. Things going off-road and on an adventure. Jeeps, and trucks, and the occasional Subaru. Something that looks like a hiking boot, should look like it’s been hiking.

    On the other hand, damage to my van would theoretically look like one of the following:

    • fender bender
    • kid mishaps
    • quality issues
    • inability to backup large vehicle without hitting things
    • grocery cart
    • strip mall parking lot key car rage
    • other assorted moments of sadness or anger

    None of these things imply experience of an adventure well lived. It implies the day to day drudgery of the life of a regular old chump. It’s a reminder of when some bastard rear ended you and then took off. Or when your father-in-law borrowed your basic commuter and backed it into a telephone pole. Or when a tractor trailer hitch punctured a hole in your Suzuki SX4’s bumper and dragged it across your employers parking lot and out onto Broadway, and you got a check to fix it but were too poor to not use it to pay rent (real example).

    TLDR: Cosmetic damage usually bothers me.

  3. I thought I cared, but after someone hit my frontier in a parking lot and left it with a busted headlight, bumper and fender i just sorta felt meh,

    oddly enough here in NC where people drive like fools on the highway i’ve noticed other drivers now keep clear of my busted up truck, so thats a benefit i guess

  4. I thought I cared, but after someone hit my frontier in a parking lot and left it with a busted headlight, bumper and fender i just sorta felt meh,

    oddly enough here in NC where people drive like fools on the highway i’ve noticed other drivers now keep clear of my busted up truck, so thats a benefit i guess

  5. My mail xj doesn’t have a straight body panel on it, but it is covered in mud 95% of the time anyway. Someone door dinged my wife’s very nice, black, sequoia and I am not happy about it. So it depends on the vehicle.

  6. My mail xj doesn’t have a straight body panel on it, but it is covered in mud 95% of the time anyway. Someone door dinged my wife’s very nice, black, sequoia and I am not happy about it. So it depends on the vehicle.

  7. It depends from whom….

    Years back, I punched a hole in my bumper cover hitting an unseen rock under a snowbank. Drilled some holes and zip tied what was left back together, ran it for 4 more years. Had that hole come from a hit and run or someone else, it would have driven me crazy.

    Same now. My current car is missing some paint on the passenger side front bumper facade due to my wife cutting the turn into our driveway too short. Doesn’t bug me at all so long as it doesn’t keep happening….

    And basically that is the end of the list until our kid starts to drive…..

  8. It depends from whom….

    Years back, I punched a hole in my bumper cover hitting an unseen rock under a snowbank. Drilled some holes and zip tied what was left back together, ran it for 4 more years. Had that hole come from a hit and run or someone else, it would have driven me crazy.

    Same now. My current car is missing some paint on the passenger side front bumper facade due to my wife cutting the turn into our driveway too short. Doesn’t bug me at all so long as it doesn’t keep happening….

    And basically that is the end of the list until our kid starts to drive…..

  9. Every time I travel to Michigan: I die a little bit inside.

    Why does crossing the state/province line into Ohio/Ontario feel like entering a whole new world?

      1. They’re wondering if that bailer twine, zip ties, and duct tape holding your body panels in place are a sign that you’re uninsured, and they should gtfo – along with wondering how your car is able to hold itself together at 80mph.

  10. Every time I travel to Michigan: I die a little bit inside.

    Why does crossing the state/province line into Ohio/Ontario feel like entering a whole new world?

      1. They’re wondering if that bailer twine, zip ties, and duct tape holding your body panels in place are a sign that you’re uninsured, and they should gtfo – along with wondering how your car is able to hold itself together at 80mph.

  11. More than it should. I’m pretty obsessive when it comes to keeping my car looking nice and I have to be because it’s black. There is no car color that gets dirtier faster. It’s a constant battle.

    However, I live in DC. Any car that lives and gets driven in the city is going to have battle scars. People are going to hit you when parking. The wheels are going to hit a curb at some point. Small objects are going to fall off of trucks and ding your hood/potentially your windshield. There’s really no avoiding it regardless of how good of a driver you are.

    That being said, it bothers me. A lot. Especially when it’s stuff that happens through no fault of my own, which it usually is. However I don’t know what the answer is. About 18 months in I paid for an expensive detailing for my GTI that including scratch and ding repair and it wasn’t really worth it. They got some stuff out, but they can never get all of it.

    I got sick of paying good money to keep my GTI looking good and have been more careful with the Kona N. It never sees drive through car washes, and your car shouldn’t either. I either wash it and detail it in my driveway or I go to a touch less automatic car wash that’s a couple miles away. In my experience they do a vaguely acceptable job and are pretty cheap.

    But you’ll absolutely have to go over your car with a microfiber towel and get after the problem areas after rolling through one. IMHO it’s worth the sacrifice to not have an assortment of things rubbing against your car and ruining its finish in a traditional car wash. The Kona has the added nuisance of having forged aluminum wheels as well and they get absolutely filthy. I have a specialized forged wheel spray I use on them.

    With the Kona I’ve tried my hand at fixing minor stuff myself and I’ve gotta say-I’m not very good at it. I have paint pen I bought directly from Hyundai. The results it gives me are preferable to having visible chips, but you can absolutely tell where it’s been used if you look closely.

    Something fell off a semi a few weeks ago and put a massive chip in my hood’s clear coat that was driving me insane, so I bought a buffing kit and tried my hand at fixing it. I followed all the instructions and…the chip is gone, but now the clear coat around it looks better than the rest of the hood and stands out. Much like the paint pen, it’s a slight improvement but not a FIX, necessarily.

    All of this is to say-if anyone has some tips I’m all ears. I’m a cheap bastard and I absolutely don’t want to pay a body shop god knows how much to make my car look factory fresh again, but at the same time the do it yourself stuff has been a “you get what you pay for” experience for me so far. There’s definitely a reason why there are so many professionals out there.

    1. As you say these are by no means a true fix, but I have found this works very well for chips in the paint:
      https://drcolorchip.com/

      It likely isn’t going to be an overall improvement you are getting but it does have the benefit of being easier to apply once you get used to it. So, you can make repairs to more chips using this product in the same amount of time.

      I’ve tried using it on longer scratches and things like that. It’s not a good solution for that but for small rock chips, it’s the easiest one I’ve found.

  12. More than it should. I’m pretty obsessive when it comes to keeping my car looking nice and I have to be because it’s black. There is no car color that gets dirtier faster. It’s a constant battle.

    However, I live in DC. Any car that lives and gets driven in the city is going to have battle scars. People are going to hit you when parking. The wheels are going to hit a curb at some point. Small objects are going to fall off of trucks and ding your hood/potentially your windshield. There’s really no avoiding it regardless of how good of a driver you are.

    That being said, it bothers me. A lot. Especially when it’s stuff that happens through no fault of my own, which it usually is. However I don’t know what the answer is. About 18 months in I paid for an expensive detailing for my GTI that including scratch and ding repair and it wasn’t really worth it. They got some stuff out, but they can never get all of it.

    I got sick of paying good money to keep my GTI looking good and have been more careful with the Kona N. It never sees drive through car washes, and your car shouldn’t either. I either wash it and detail it in my driveway or I go to a touch less automatic car wash that’s a couple miles away. In my experience they do a vaguely acceptable job and are pretty cheap.

    But you’ll absolutely have to go over your car with a microfiber towel and get after the problem areas after rolling through one. IMHO it’s worth the sacrifice to not have an assortment of things rubbing against your car and ruining its finish in a traditional car wash. The Kona has the added nuisance of having forged aluminum wheels as well and they get absolutely filthy. I have a specialized forged wheel spray I use on them.

    With the Kona I’ve tried my hand at fixing minor stuff myself and I’ve gotta say-I’m not very good at it. I have paint pen I bought directly from Hyundai. The results it gives me are preferable to having visible chips, but you can absolutely tell where it’s been used if you look closely.

    Something fell off a semi a few weeks ago and put a massive chip in my hood’s clear coat that was driving me insane, so I bought a buffing kit and tried my hand at fixing it. I followed all the instructions and…the chip is gone, but now the clear coat around it looks better than the rest of the hood and stands out. Much like the paint pen, it’s a slight improvement but not a FIX, necessarily.

    All of this is to say-if anyone has some tips I’m all ears. I’m a cheap bastard and I absolutely don’t want to pay a body shop god knows how much to make my car look factory fresh again, but at the same time the do it yourself stuff has been a “you get what you pay for” experience for me so far. There’s definitely a reason why there are so many professionals out there.

    1. As you say these are by no means a true fix, but I have found this works very well for chips in the paint:
      https://drcolorchip.com/

      It likely isn’t going to be an overall improvement you are getting but it does have the benefit of being easier to apply once you get used to it. So, you can make repairs to more chips using this product in the same amount of time.

      I’ve tried using it on longer scratches and things like that. It’s not a good solution for that but for small rock chips, it’s the easiest one I’ve found.

  13. The other day I noticed a blue scrape on my yellow Maverick’s tailgate. I’m annoyed about it, but stuff happens. It doesn’t penetrate the paint, so rust isn’t going to be a problem and it’s not that noticeable unless you’re up close. I probably won’t do anything about it.

    Dents and dings that I am responsible for cause me a lot more angst because every time I see them I am reminded how much an idiot I can be.

  14. The other day I noticed a blue scrape on my yellow Maverick’s tailgate. I’m annoyed about it, but stuff happens. It doesn’t penetrate the paint, so rust isn’t going to be a problem and it’s not that noticeable unless you’re up close. I probably won’t do anything about it.

    Dents and dings that I am responsible for cause me a lot more angst because every time I see them I am reminded how much an idiot I can be.

  15. Not much. I bought my current daily driver Mazda 3 with a dented hood and some dings on the quarter panel because it was like $2K below market price. Then when I was searching for an older truck/SUV to use as an adventure/tow rig, I actually sought out one that was a little rougher because I knew it’d end up getting lots of trail scratches and the paint would get roasted sitting outside all the time. So I ended up with a 2004 Sequoia with roached clear coat, some exterior scratches, and a few dents on the hatch, and it’s kinda freeing having a vehicle you don’t really care much about.

  16. Not much. I bought my current daily driver Mazda 3 with a dented hood and some dings on the quarter panel because it was like $2K below market price. Then when I was searching for an older truck/SUV to use as an adventure/tow rig, I actually sought out one that was a little rougher because I knew it’d end up getting lots of trail scratches and the paint would get roasted sitting outside all the time. So I ended up with a 2004 Sequoia with roached clear coat, some exterior scratches, and a few dents on the hatch, and it’s kinda freeing having a vehicle you don’t really care much about.

  17. On the daily driver, minor scratches or dings are ok, I definitely try to touch them up to avoid them getting worse. Entire body panels being messed up or missing is way too much for me.

    Saw a dude without a hood driving in to work this morning, that’s a bit crazy, and see people without bumpers all the time since they just rip right off nowadays, the wife and I joke those are ‘custom’, to ‘reduce weight’, but don’t understand how some just drive the car that way forever after that, even if it’s not paint matched, just go to the pick’n’pull and get another one, no idea how that even passes inspection.

    1. I used to see a lady in an Expedition every morning on my drive to work. The Expedition had no muffler, no hood and the side steps were rusted off and just rusty jagged vestigial mounting points sticking out waiting to cut somebody, it was something else

  18. On the daily driver, minor scratches or dings are ok, I definitely try to touch them up to avoid them getting worse. Entire body panels being messed up or missing is way too much for me.

    Saw a dude without a hood driving in to work this morning, that’s a bit crazy, and see people without bumpers all the time since they just rip right off nowadays, the wife and I joke those are ‘custom’, to ‘reduce weight’, but don’t understand how some just drive the car that way forever after that, even if it’s not paint matched, just go to the pick’n’pull and get another one, no idea how that even passes inspection.

    1. I used to see a lady in an Expedition every morning on my drive to work. The Expedition had no muffler, no hood and the side steps were rusted off and just rusty jagged vestigial mounting points sticking out waiting to cut somebody, it was something else

  19. Cosmetic damage is the bane of my existence. I have allowed myself to accept tiny rock chips and slight pitting on the front end. It’s a daily driver, that shit’s gonna happen when driving on the expressway. Anything beyond that is something that I will notice every time I walk up to my car. For instance, some jackass in a Honda Fit wedged himself in a tight spot and put a slight dent in my front bumper. Am I the only one that can see it? Yes. Do I die a little inside every time I look at it? Also yes.

    I park at the back of parking lots. My car is garaged at home and at work. It gets professionally detailed twice a year and hand-washed by me in between. Aside from the aforementioned blemish, there are no scratches and no dings.

  20. Cosmetic damage is the bane of my existence. I have allowed myself to accept tiny rock chips and slight pitting on the front end. It’s a daily driver, that shit’s gonna happen when driving on the expressway. Anything beyond that is something that I will notice every time I walk up to my car. For instance, some jackass in a Honda Fit wedged himself in a tight spot and put a slight dent in my front bumper. Am I the only one that can see it? Yes. Do I die a little inside every time I look at it? Also yes.

    I park at the back of parking lots. My car is garaged at home and at work. It gets professionally detailed twice a year and hand-washed by me in between. Aside from the aforementioned blemish, there are no scratches and no dings.

  21. Interior I’m still particular on as that’s where I spend more time and I want it clean and functioning, but I find I’m more relaxed about the exterior than I was years ago, which is at odds with it being the first new car I chose exactly what I wanted. Some dings and scuffs are obscured unless you look at the right angle. Chips through the finish/paint still bug me as they stand out more, and seem to have happened more on this car compared to my past ones. Like a rock chip right on the leading edge of the hood that stands out more, or curbed rim. Even so, my train of thought when it comes to repairing them cautions, is it something that would worsen in some way, or something that might just happen again after I fix it (probably immediately after given my luck).

  22. Interior I’m still particular on as that’s where I spend more time and I want it clean and functioning, but I find I’m more relaxed about the exterior than I was years ago, which is at odds with it being the first new car I chose exactly what I wanted. Some dings and scuffs are obscured unless you look at the right angle. Chips through the finish/paint still bug me as they stand out more, and seem to have happened more on this car compared to my past ones. Like a rock chip right on the leading edge of the hood that stands out more, or curbed rim. Even so, my train of thought when it comes to repairing them cautions, is it something that would worsen in some way, or something that might just happen again after I fix it (probably immediately after given my luck).

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